About Lavinia | The Healing House

Hey there I'm Lavinia

Who Am I & Why I Do What I Do

I know myself. All the shitty bits, the loving parts, the parts that drive me and others crazy – the wholeness of me.

Knowing myself has given me the confidence to stop beating myself up, to walk tall (all 5ft 2 of me), and to leave, block, delete, and archive when something or someone isn’t for me.

But it hasn’t always been this way. I have been divorced, disowned, rejected, unsupported, evicted, threatened, and have suffered from mental imbalance. I have been attacked, homeless, penniless, robbed, scarred, and scared.

As a child, I was scared. The world scared me, speaking up scared me … hearing my own voice terrified me.

Now my voice is my tool and medicine that I use for Self and others.

Over the years, I have worked on my Self and Shadow, really looking, accepting, and working with those parts of me that I deemed unacceptable, unlikeable, unlovable, and unrelatable. Bringing all those pieces of me back home.

My Commitment

Devotion: Reverend Healer

I carry many titles — Healer, Intergenerational Healing Practitioner, Hypnotherapist, Psychotherapist.
Each reflects a piece of what I do. But at my core, I'm a Reverend Healer.

The world often asks us to fit into labelled boxes — it helps make sense of things.

As an ordained minister and healer, my work bridges the seen and unseen, the personal and ancestral, the sacred and the everyday.
It's grounded not in doctrine, but in a living relationship with the spirit within each of us, and with the wisdom carried through our lineages.

So, use whatever term speaks most clearly to your heart.

What matters is the relationship we build—the trust we create, the space we carve, the sacred container where healing unfolds. I walk beside you, sometimes as a Guide, sometimes as a Witness. But always with reverence. Because this work is sacred.
I am honoured to walk this path with you.

Ashe.

My Medicine

This space is held by me, Lavinia — not as a leader, but as a custodian.

I've been dreaming into the Healing House for over 20 years. A little piece of it has made itself known to me over time, during lessons, modalities, studies, dreams and conversations.

The Healing House isn’t built around me. It’s built for you.

For those doing the quiet, necessary, sacred work of remembering who they are.

My role here is to hold the space.

To offer tools, structure, and support — while staying behind the scenes.

I’m not here to give you the answers.

I’m here to help you find your own.

I bring over 10 years of research and experience into this work, acknowledging and recognising that modern therapy isn't the starting point. As Luisa Teish so beautifully says in her book Jambalaya:

'Our foremothers knew things that modern science is still struggling to explain.

Our ancestors had access to the collective unconscious centuries before Jung’s mother got pregnant.'

This website is just the portal

Everything inside the Healing House — the sessions, the invitations, the dates, the holding — happens quietly, off-platform, and directly through me.

If you’d like to be part of this work, share your email (the one you actually check).
I’ll send you what’s needed — and you’ll know where to find me when the call comes.

This is how we do it: grounded, personal, sacred.